diff --git a/gpcm/friend.go b/gpcm/friend.go
index 150b86a..cdca97f 100644
--- a/gpcm/friend.go
+++ b/gpcm/friend.go
@@ -320,6 +320,7 @@ func (g *GameSpySession) openHostEnabled() {
 		if session.LoggedIn && session.isFriendAdded(g.User.ProfileId) && !session.isFriendAuthorized(g.User.ProfileId) {
 			session.AuthFriendList = append(session.AuthFriendList, g.User.ProfileId)
 			g.AuthFriendList = append(g.AuthFriendList, session.User.ProfileId)
+			sendMessageToSession("4", g.User.ProfileId, session, "")
 			session.exchangeFriendStatus(g.User.ProfileId)
 		}
 	}
diff --git a/gpcm/message.go b/gpcm/message.go
index 5b0515c..a7a6b57 100644
--- a/gpcm/message.go
+++ b/gpcm/message.go
@@ -188,7 +188,7 @@ func (g *GameSpySession) bestieMessage(command common.GameSpyCommand) {
 	if toSession, ok = sessions[uint32(toProfileId)]; !ok || !toSession.LoggedIn {
 		logging.Error(g.ModuleName, "Destination", aurora.Cyan(toProfileId), "is not online")
 		// g.replyError(ErrMessageFriendOffline)
-		sendMessageToSession("1", uint32(toProfileId), g, resvDenyMsg)
+		sendMessageToSessionBuffer("1", uint32(toProfileId), g, resvDenyMsg)
 		return
 	}
 
@@ -200,7 +200,7 @@ func (g *GameSpySession) bestieMessage(command common.GameSpyCommand) {
 
 	if !toSession.DeviceAuthenticated {
 		logging.Error(g.ModuleName, "Destination", aurora.Cyan(toProfileId), "is not device authenticated")
-		sendMessageToSession("1", uint32(toProfileId), g, resvDenyMsg)
+		sendMessageToSessionBuffer("1", uint32(toProfileId), g, resvDenyMsg)
 		return
 	}